22 Years

I saw a post circulating on Facebook a while back about dating.  

It said something to the effect of comparing a potential mate to the 

1 Corinthians 13: 4-6 verses.  

If you can substitute your sweetie's name for the word 'love', 

then that person is a keeper.

I tried it with my groom,

Doug.

Doug is patient and kind;

Doug does not envy or boast; 

Doug is not arrogant or rude.

He does not insist on his own way, he is not irritable or resentful

He does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 

Doug bears all things, 

believes all things, 

hopes all things, 

endures all things.

Doug never fails.

I can honestly say that every verse above is true for Doug.

He loves me with a Holy love,

the way God intended.

I could not say the same if my name was substituted.

Most days, I am very un-Holy.

He makes me a better person everyday

because he knows it's more important to lead me to God

than to lead me to himself.

I am so thankful for every single day of our 22 years together.

I've been very thoughtful over the last week, pondering our life together and the circumstances that led us to today.
I can say with great confidence that the loss of my parents is one of the reasons we are together.  I believe they were in Heaven praying for me all those years I was a lost and sad young woman.  

They were praying for YOU to find me and give me this beautiful life we share.

I'd like to think they're still up there praying for you.

They probably think sometimes,

 "Oh my goodness!  

What have we gotten that poor boy into?"

May God continue to bless us with many more years together!

Happy anniversary,

My Love.

Round 2 of the 21 Day Fix

I just completed my second round of the 21 Day Fix 

with really good results 

AGAIN!  

In case you missed it, here are the before and after pics 

from my first round:

And here I am today:

Only eight pounds down BUT I've lost major inches in my abdomen, hips, and legs!  I think the weight loss would be more but I'm gaining muscle because I'm lifting weights five days a week.  Overall I am very happy with the results!

Since beginning this weight loss/healthy living journey in June, 

I'm down 47 pounds.

I may not look like it, but I sure FEEL like it!

All the new clothes I bought in July are too big now...

and for me, that's a really great problem to have!

And today while Doug and I were at the gym, I got SO dizzy.  I felt like I was going to puke.  I think it's time to get rid of my blood pressure medicine, what do you think?

I have about three more weeks until I follow up with my MD. 

 Just enough time for another round of the 21 Day Fix!  

Will let you know how that follow up goes. 

 I expect great things!

Tiny Dancer

For the last year, Mary Grace has been begging for ballet lessons.

Her grandparents gifted her her dreams!

She was so excited for the first day of class...

until we actually got there.

Then she wasn't so sure!

I can't tell from the look on her face if she was sizing up the competition, or just wishing everyone would just disappear.

They don't allow parents to stay during classes.

I think it was harder for me to leave her 

than it was for her to be left there!

She did great, though.

After class, she showed me all her new moves...like "tipee-toes!"

This is a new experience for me, too!

I'm used to dirty cleats, not petite ballet slippers.

21 Days ~ The Before and After

I DID IT!

I completed my  own copy cat version of the

21 Day Fix

and I'm here to give you all the low down, 

dirty deets about how I did.

First of all the before and after pics:

 I don't know if you can tell the difference, 

but I can definitely FEEL the difference!

I could absolutely kick myself for not taking measurements 

but I can tell that I am down several inches 

in my arms, thighs, and abdomen.  

I feel GREAT, have tons of energy, and am sleeping soundly though the night without the aid of melatonin...or wine!

I did my own cheat version of the 21 Day Fix (just scroll down a few posts to read about it!) and went to the gym every day M - F for at least an hour for cardio and weights.  I'm not going to actually divulge my weight, but I am down 9 lbs.

And I am very happy with that!

In these three weeks I have found that meal planning is the key.  Having pre planned, portioned meals/snacks on hand when I'm hungry or in a rush is the key to success.

I haven't been hungry on this plan either!

As a matter of fact, I find it difficult to get in all my veggie containers in a day.  I tend to plan my meals only two days in advance because I get bored eating the same thing over and over.  Some people make a whole week's worth of meals at a time, that's just not for me.

I love that I am eating whole foods and I know that that is the reason for feeling so good on the program.  One day while running errands, we had to stop for burgers.  I didn't feel guilty for cheating on the program, but my body felt sick for eating crap. 

 I haven't wanted it again since then 

and my sugar cravings have disappeared...

except for a piece of really good chocolate now and then!

My blood pressure has always been through the roof since having Mary Grace.  My diastolic, or bottom number, 

has always been over 100.  Always.

I have been getting dizzy this past week and couldn't figure out why, so I just randomly checked my BP.  

Check this out:

It's truly amazing that all of this happened in just three short weeks!

Today is officially the last of my 21 Days

but I'm starting another round tomorrow.

I will most likely keep repeating rounds of the 21 Day Fix until I reach my goal weight.

The program is simple, healthy, and perfect for a busy lifestyle.

I feel like I finally know how to eat healthy.

Plus, I gained a super cute gym partner to keep me motivated!

No make up, sweaty gym selfie!

#HOTTIES

My broken girl

Week before last, Mary Grace was goofing off in a rolling 

desk chair and fell out of it onto the hard tile floor.

She cried, I cried. 

She was in a lot of pain the next day so I took her to the pediatrician.  After a quick exam, he said she was fine.

After two more days in pain, 

we took her to the ER for an xray.

Broken clavicle.

Her second one in three short years.

This girl has broken more bones than all of her brothers combined!

And don't think for a minute that sling slowed her down.

It was off by the time we got in the car.

And though she be but little~

she is FIERCE!

                                                                            William Shakespeare

21 Day Fix On the Cheap

So if you read my previous post about my workout obsession, you can understand that exercise alone doesn't change your body. 

 Real change, real health starts in the kitchen!  

One weekend I was channel surfing and came across the 21 Day Fix infomercial.  It sounded easy enough, but the price nearly killed me!  I thought for sure there had to be an easy cheat...and there was.

The basis of the 21 Day Fix are color coded containers.  Each holds a certain portion of food and you can have so many of those portions based on your calorie range. It's all about portion control and eating the right combinations of fruits, veggies, and lean proteins.  It breaks down like this:

Green = veggies = 1 cup

Purple = fruit = 1 cup

Red = lean protein = 3/4 cup

Yellow = carbs = 1/2 cup

Blue = healthy fats = 1/3 cup

Orange = 2 Tbs. = dressings and seeds/nuts

You can figure out how many of each container you will eat for a day by figuring up your caloric need.  For me, I need to be between 1800-2000 calories a day so I get:

5 Green

3 Purple

5 Red

4 Yellow

1 Blue

1 Orange

Every couple of days, I portion out prepared meals into containers so that way I'm all set.  No guess work or frantically trying to find something to eat come meal time.  There are also workout DVDs included with the program.  Since I go to the gym daily, I feel like I'm covered there.  Then there's the water.  This programs has you drinking LOTS of water...my quota per day, 16 cups!  I've yet to drink that much, but I'm trying!

Now don't think you can just fill your carb container with ice cream and call it a day.  This program also gives you a food list for each container.  You learn to eat whole foods in their proper portions.  I'm on week two and it's really sinking in!  I'm already portioning out my food without the use of measuring cups.  I know how much, and of what, I should be eating and it's becoming automatic.  I'm also down 3 pounds after the first week.

Here's a sample of what I took to work this weekend:

Breakfast:  Greek yogurt with berries

Morning Snack:  Carrots with hummus

Lunch:  Shrimp salad with avocado

Afternoon snack:  Cucumbers and sweet bell peppers with dressing

For dinner that night, we had salmon and kale salad

and I saved the apple for my evening snack.

I have never felt hungry on this plan, as a matter of fact, I have trouble getting in all my containers for the day!  I'm actually craving whole, healthy foods instead of the processed crap.

There are tons of meal plans, tips and tricks, and just good old basics of how the program works on YouTube and Pinterest.  Just type in "21 Day Fix" into the search engine.  Or you can follow my 21 Day Fix board on Pinterest HERE.

I'll post an update at the end of my 21 days,

so check back!

Sweat is MAGIC!

A little over a month ago I had a routine check up with my doctor.  For me, check ups usually go down like this:

My weight would be inching upwards.

My lab results would be crappy.

She'd add another medication to the already lengthy list.

I'd feel like such a loser leaving the office that I'd drown my sorrows in Chick-fil-A or Mexican food.

This time was different.

By some miracle, I was down 10 lbs. from my previous visit.

My labs were pretty darn good.

I got off of one of my blood pressure medications.

And she praised me for the positive changes I had been making.

I felt like such a winner that I went out and treated myself to some new clothes instead of food.

It was a really good day.

Something inside me snapped.  For the first time in a really long time, I felt empowered and encouraged to make some more positive changes in regards to my health. 

 So I joined a gym.

Yes folks, I've become one of THOSE people.

You know the ones....

I hit that gym Monday - Friday for 1-2 hours at a time.  I also go back in the evenings for Zumba, Tabata, Pilates, or whatever class they are offering.

It's an addiction, really.

This is MY time to get healthy.  

It's MY time to crank up my music as loud as I can stand it and just zone out.  

It's MY life and I feel like I'm finally waking up and taking charge of it!

Sweat is magic, y'all.

It has made me so much stronger than I was a month ago, physically and mentally.

It has shown me how to deal with stress, anxiety, and depression.

It has shown me my body is capable of amazing things.

It has shown me how to love myself.

And best of all, when my husband says, 

"DAMN GIRL!  You look HAWT!"

Well...what more could I ever want?

Trust me, the best things in life make you sweaty!

Feeling old...

I am now the mother of TWO adult children!

How'd that happen?  I swear they were just babies yesterday.

Kyle turned 18 this year.

Birthdays are pretty low key around here, no big parties, 

just family time.

Everyone gets donuts and presents when they wake up...

great way to start the day if you ask me!

And everyone gets the cake of their request.

For Kyle, it's always a 

Texas Chocolate Sheet Cake.

You can get the recipe HERE.

(FYI, I substituted dark chocolate cocoa powder for regular)

We ended the day with an Astros game.

Kyle is the ultimate Astros fan so a day at 

Minute Maid Park was a must!

A mere two days later, Ryan turned 21!

This kid, who survived childhood on hot dogs and 

Goldfish crackers, has turned into quite the foodie.  

We went out for sushi and cocktails...

and truth be told, 

he's one of the reasons I drink!

His cake of choice,

Italian Cream Cake.

It's another Pioneer Woman recipe 

and can be found HERE.

As with any 21 year old,

we just got a small portion of his time that day.

He had major celebrating to do with his friends!

The week was bittersweet.

I'm excited for the boys.  They're growing up and becoming awesome young men, but the mama in me still misses my baby boys.  Good thing they have three younger siblings!

I'm going to try to keep them little for as long as I can!

The perks of chicken-sitting!

Have an EGGcellent day!

JoAnn's BIG Adventure!

This country girl took off to Dallas for a weekend...

no husband, no kids, 

no looking back!

My "BIG" adventure!  Get it?

The purpose of my trip was to see a Broadway show of Pippin and reunite with my dear high school English/Drama teacher. 
I also had the added perk of meeting up with the lovely ladies pictured above. We all went to high school together, but it wasn't your typical high school experience...

Here's a little fun fact about me, I'm an orphan.  

I don't know if anyone uses that term anymore, but I grew up without parents.  My mother died when I was three and my daddy died when I was eleven.  I was placed in the guardianship of my dear aunt and uncle.  They loved me VERY much, but were up in years and really didn't want to start over with a young child.  They found a wonderful place for me to live called, 

The Masonic Home & School of Texas.

Campus of The Masonic Home &School of Texas

"The Home" as we like to call it, was a place of refuge for hundreds of kids over the years.  Everyone there had a story, and none of those stories were good.  We all came from broken homes, and sometimes we, ourselves, were broken.

But at The Masonic Home & School of Texas, we had a HOME.  

I felt more at home there than anywhere else on earth.  

Chapel 

God placed some mighty wonderful people there 

to take care of us all.

My old room is now an office.

And the other kids that were at The Home with me,

well, they're more like family.

We were together year round.  We lived in dorms together, ate together, went to school, played sports, got in trouble, and yes, sometimes fought like cats and dogs together!

The dinning hall

 I look back on my time there now with such emotion and love, but at the time I was there I absolutely hated it!  

On my graduation day, I vowed NEVER to come back!

And I didn't for 28 years.

Masonic Home high school

But with my dear teacher's invitation, I ventured back.

I'm so glad I did, and I wish I had done it sooner!

I thought it would be weird seeing them again, but it wasn't.  We picked right up where we left off and being with them was comfortable and easy.

  

Touring The Home again, not so much!

It was very emotional and sometimes overwhelming.

  

 It now belongs to a wonderful group called, All Church Home, and they are continuing the same work as the Masons in caring for abandoned and troubled children. 

Now for the rest of the story...

Dinner and drinks!

My sweet former teacher is now part of the theater guild in Dallas.

They provide support for the touring companies, like feeding them lunch in between shows on the weekends.  We got to help out with that and meet the cast (who are all AMAZING, by the way!!)

Mr. Colley and the cast of Pippin

I also got a brush with celebrity,

that petite lady in the white robe towards the back of the room is Adrienne Barbeau!

I served her fruit salad,

so yeah, I'm kind of a big deal

and this is my lame attempt at a "selfie" with her!

We finished off the weekend with this incredible show!

If you have a chance to see it while it's touring, you MUST.  As a matter of fact, it's coming to Houston in October and Doug promised to take me to see it again...soooo excited to share that with him!

On the long five hour drive home I had lots of time to reflect over the weekend, it was very emotional for me.  Seeing my childhood home, visiting with people who I consider family, and finally seeing Pippin...a play about a young man who is struggling to find the purpose of his life.  Pippin finds that in being ordinary, he becomes extraordinary.  

I never pursued my love of acting. 
 I just became a wife, mother, and nurse...nothing special.

But sometimes, the most ordinary things can be made extraordinary...by doing them with the right people.

Thank you for teaching me yet another lesson, Mr. Colley!

"Rivers belong where they can ramble,

Eagles belong where they can fly.

I've got to be

where my spirit can run free!

Gotta find my corner of the sky..."

~Corner of the sky, PIPPIN

Mother's Day

Wishing you and yours a beautiful 

Mother's Day.